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A Mother’s Influence

The life we live can have a huge impact on the people around us. Our behavior and our actions influence those people greatly, especially our children. Whether we admit it or not, our behaviors (good or bad) can have a lasting effect on our daughters and sons. Our children observe the life we live out in the open as well as in the privacy of our own home. They see and know the real us. What we do and every decision that we make affects our children’s lives.
Through our actions and behavior, we teach our children morals and values. We teach them how to respond appropriately to various situations. We teach them how a Godly woman should live. We’re their role models! And as role models, we must be mindful of our every decision that we make.
Let’s take a look at today’s passage.
“For Herod himself had given orders to have John arrested, and he had him bound and put in prison.He did this because of Herodias, his brother Philip’s wife, whom he had married. For John had been saying to Herod, ‘It is not lawful for you to have your brother’s wife.’  So Herodias nursed a grudge against John and wanted to kill him. But she was not able to,because Herod feared John and protected him, knowing him to be a righteous and holy man. When Herod heard John, he was greatly puzzled; yet he liked to listen to him.  
Finally the opportune time came. On his birthday Herod gave a banquetfor his high officials and military commanders and the leading men of Galilee. When the daughter ofHerodias came in and danced, she pleased Herod and his dinner guests. The king said to the girl, ‘Ask me for anything you want, and I’ll give it to you.’ And he promised her with an oath, ‘Whatever you ask I will give you, up to half my kingdom.’
She went out and said to her mother, ‘What shall I ask for?’ ‘The head of John the Baptist,’  she answered.  At once the girl hurried in to the king with the request: ‘I want you to give me right now the head of John the Baptist on a platter.'” 
(Mark 6:17-25, NIV)
In today’s passage, the actions and behavior of this mother influenced the actions of her daughter. Herodias’ lifestyle taught her daughter several mistakes.
  1. How to reject God. Herodias taught her daughter how to reject God and His precepts. (Mk. 6:17b)
  2. How to disregard Godly Counsel. Herodias taught her daughter how to disregard Godly counsel and how to respond incorrectly when confronted for doing the wrong thing. (Mk. 6:18-19).
  3. How sinful behavior makes horrible choices. Ultimately, Herodias, foolishly, taught her child how sinful behavior can drive us to do the unthinkable, and if not dealt with properly, sin can consume us. (Mk. 6:24-28)
Though, we are not perfect and we’re going to make many mistakes throughout motherhood, we can learn some valuable lessons from Herodias. Although, Herodias taught her daughter the contradictory principles of a Godly mother, as Believers, Godly women, we must:
  1. Teach our children to fear the Lord and obey His commands (Deut. 6:1-3; Ps. 78:5). God’s word reminds us that the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom (Prov. 9:10).
  2. We must teach our daughters and sons how to respect and heed Godly advice from men and women of God (Prov. 12:26, NLT).
  3. Most importantly, because of our sinful nature, we must show our children how they should admit their sin and humbly ask for forgiveness (Ps. 32:5, NLT). Then, be led by the Spirit (Rom. 8:9-14).
Since the life we live can have a major impact on our children, let us be mindful of our actions, behavior, and lifestyle. What we do and how we live can influence our children and the people around us.
Are the decisions I’m making teaching my child to cling to the Word of God or stray away from God’s principles? Am I causing my child to make ungodly choices? Am I living a life that will affect my child’s life in a negative way? Is my lifestyle influencing my child to go against God?
As Mothers, let’s strive to be Godly examples in our homes, on our jobs, in our communities, and in our church!
*Originally posted 5/8/12.

Rhovonda L. Brown is speaker and author of two bestsellers, Walking in Freedom!: A Thirty-Day Devotional Journey for Women and At Least Say, “Thank You!”: An 8-Day Devotional Plan for a Grateful Heart. 

Copyright ©2010-2016. Rhovonda L. Brown. All Rights Reserved.


“Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal; but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal” (Matt. 6:19-20, NKJV)

As a mother, I want to leave a legacy for my children, a legacy that no one can take away. If I should die today, I want to leave my children and my children’s children something that cannot be destroyed, stolen, broken, lost, or fade away.

I want my children to graduate from college, be financially taken care of and not want for anything. I want them to have opportunities to visit different cities and far away countries. I want my children to see and experience things beyond their wildest dreams. But if they never have an opportunity to do those things, if the Lord should end their lives before those things are accomplished, I want it to be said that I left my children the greatest legacy.

I want my children to know that I left them something special that cannot be destroyed; thieves cannot steal, something that can’t be vanish or ever fade away. I want to leave my children something unique that no money in the world can buy, a special treasure.

My children (Kourtney & Kaleb) and my godchildren (DeDe & Deven)

The most important thing that a mother can do for her children; the most wonderful legacy she can leave them is the Word of God (Deut. 11:19). Mothers can share Jesus with their children. We can share God’s love story, the Bible, and tell them how the Creator displayed His great love for the world by giving His Son (John 3:16).  

The greatest treasure, the ultimate legacy that we as mothers can ever leave our children is Jesus Christ. Those other things, such as money and material things are good, but they won’t last.  

As we work and plan to make a better life for our children, let’s not forget about their souls. Let’s not forget to share God’s Word and His Son, which is most important. We want our children to know the Word of God and know that Jesus is the best thing they will ever need in this life.

Mothers, when all those other things diminish, dissolve, or disappear Jesus will still be standing. Let’s leave our children a legacy that will last forever! Jesus is the matchless treasure – gift that we can give our children.




*Originally posted 7/24/11.

Rhovonda L. Brown is speaker and author of two bestsellers, Walking in Freedom!: A Thirty-Day Devotional Journey for Women and At Least Say, “Thank You!”: An 8-Day Devotional Plan for a Grateful Heart. 

Copyright ©2010-2016. Rhovonda L. Brown. All Rights Reserved.